While watching an early noontime show, I never thought that I would hear one of the most sensitive words I would hear in my lifetime and the line goes like... " Wala kang kapintasan, meron ka lang katangian". The gay comedianne referred to how the midget contestant viewed himself as having a disability yet trying to achieve something and at that point found the opportunity with dancing. The gay comedianne also related his feelings about his situation in the society as a gay. He stated that as a gay, everyday seems a battle and a never-ending challenge to prove himself.
But whether you're a midget, a gay or just like anyone of us, we are never free of people's ridicule and everyday seems to be a daily struggle to fit in...
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Habang naglalakad ako sa kahabaan ng Mendiola sa tapat ng San Beda, napansin ko ang isang babaeng walang kamay pero merong dalang mga libro at bakas sa kanya ang tiwala sa sarili na hindi makikita sa mga babaeng nakakasalubong niya na napapasulyap sa kanya at nag-iiwan ng mga tingin na mapang-uyam...dahil ba wala siyang kamay?!?! Siguro. Pero ano bang hindi niya kayang gawin maliban sa makipaghigh-five?!?! malamang kaya niyang magsulat dahil estudyante siya, marunong siyang magbasa dahil may dala siyang libro... at may manner siya dahil di niya inaway 'yung dalawang babaeng tumawa sa klagayan niya...
Hindi naman dapat maging big deal ang pagkakaroon ng kapansanan,eh minsan nga mas nagiging drive pa ito ng mga taong ito para maging mas mabuti at mas mahusay na tao. Tingnan natin si Stevie Wonder bulag pero magaling na musikero, si Helen Keller deaf, mute and blind pero magaling na writer at naging kilala sa kanyang positibong pananaw sa buhay, si Franklin Roosevelt a tatlong termino nagsilbi bilang pangulo ng Amerika pero nagkapolio at hindi nakakalakad at si Tom Cruise dyslexic pero magaling na artista kahit na di niya kayang basahin ang script...Ilan lang sila sa naging succesful na taong may natatanging trait na nangangahulugang hindi naman hadlang ang kapansanan sa pag-abot ng pangarap...
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Let's go to the minor imperfections like scars, flat nose, or anything which may not fit in with the current standard of beauty.
We have all been a victim of such imperfections because no one is REALLY satisfied with the way he or she looks, one may feel a little too fat or a little too skinny, one's nose may be too flat or the mouth is relatively bigger than most of his friends, some girls may feel that their boobs are way smaller or to a few Filipinas bigger than most of her colleagues( good thing, men's tools are not publicly subjected to size comparisons )... whichever way, it's a dilemma a lot of people face nowadays. BUT WORRY NO MORE... because aesthetic medicine is here to stay and solve all your problems about these minor imperfections. You will be imperfect no more and this superficial beauty is achieved in no time but with a price tag which will just add to your "market value".
But with recent controversies like a breast cancer which was not detected due to a breast augmentation, infection due to butt augmentation and a bigger problem due to a penile enhancement/enlargement, is it really cool to undergo some aesthetics operation?!?!
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Hindi naman na dapat pinagtatalunan kung sino ang mas may kwenta at kung sino'ng wala... kung sinong mas mahalaga at kung sino'ng dapat itapon na lang... kung pwede ba talagang magkaroon ng silbi ang mga itinuring nating wala nang pakinabang at ang mga inaasahan natin ang siyang papalpak sa bandang huli...
Siguro nga mayroong mga kapintasan ang bawat tao at ang mga ito kasama ng mga strengths natin ang nagpapa-unique sa atin... it makes us feel human... kaya nga siguro nobody's perfect...kasi kung meron mang maging perfect ang unfair naman.. kung lahat naman perfect, malamang hindi rin natin malalaman...pero kahit anu pa tayo at anumang itsura natin, planado daw ito... planado Niya raw ito... kung plano niyang magparetoke ka... 'yon ang hindi ko alam...
Wala namang mali kung gusto mong burahin ang imperfections mo sa mukha, katawan at lalo na sa ugali... kung paano mo makukuha ang pagbabagong iyon eh ang mas mahalaga...
Kung wala kaya akong kamay, nakapagblog pa rin kaya ako?!?! At kung bulag ka, matuto ka kayang gumamit ng computer?!?!?
Ako si Billie.... blogging...
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