Pondering: imagine the good times, feet the bad times

I don't know you
But I want you
All the more for that
Words fall through me
And always fool me
And I can't react
- Falling Slowly, Kris Allen

I love her...but she doesn't know about it.. she doesn't even have a single clue...but I do not intend to let her know... I want to keep it as it is... we are better off as strangers.. I think.

Have you ever been in love?

People from different parts of the globe and from all walks of life have always imagined to find that one person who would complete them but along the way things will not turn the way you imagined it to be and that one person you feel love for isn't the person you imagined to give it to...

It is very much exciting to talk about the exchange of sweet nothings between you and your loved one but oftentimes, people end up having nightmares or sleepless nights because of a failed love...

We look tirelessly for that perfect person yet when we found them we just can't say to them the words we have memorized from the moment we learned what love was...

You can go half-way around the world just to follow our special one but when we found them, they already belong to somebody...

You flirted with numerous girls and tell them how sweet and beautiful they are and just how much you like them but your tongue got twisted upon seeing the only person you wanted to spend life with...

Many girls dream of having a prince who will come at their rescue and sweep their feet off but in the end they will settle to be the bestfriend..."just bestfriend" or worse, the other woman...

Sometimes, they are just beside you waiting to be noticed but when oyu finally take a glimpse of her angelic face and started falling for her, that's when you realize you don't stand a chance on the person because of two reasons...(1) you're not her type and (2) she is going steady with someone who's so better than you...

We anticipated and practiced each sweet line not knowing they will never come along ...

We waited for love to come along...yet when it came... you let it pass... or it took a pass on you...

Girls can kiss a lot of frogs to find her prince just like a man can try that glass shoe to find for that lady who would have the perfect fit but how long are you going to do it? How far can you get?

Wanted: Mr. and Ms. Right

Have you found....THE ONE?

Sa pagtingin ko sa sari-saring sites sa internet sa pagbabaka sakali na makakuha ako ng mga trivias, eh tungkol lang sa paghanap ng true love, soul mate, mr or ms right o perfect one lang ang nakikita kong mga posts at paminsan-minsan eh ads ng mga astrologer. I have nothing against waiting for it pero to go crazy about looking for the one...medyo mali na yata iyon. gaya nga ng sinabi ni radley, isa sa mga sumagot sa tanong na ito sa Yahoo Answers which I quote " don't think that there is 'the one' out there, but maybe a few. You should enjoy being with the person you're with and when you stop being happy you move on. I also don't think you should waste time looking for the 'perfect' person, because people aren't perfect and you could bypass someone that could make you really and truly happy. I think it's a case of the grass being greener on the other side most of the time." Pero sabi nga nila, kung minsan-minsan lang, wala namang masama. Go ahead look for that person...he or she may be looking for you as well...who knows?

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Sabi ng teacher ko dati, hindi raw totoo ang ideal person...parang make believe kasi "ideal" daw, imagination pero in the end ni wala sa kalingkingan ng ideal person natin yung nakakatuluyan natin. I agree. Love after all isn't about finding the right or the perfect person for you, it is about making everything perfect and right with the person you chose to be with.

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At, eto na ang dahilan kung bakit ko ginawa ang taglish na post na ito. Nagsend kasi ang friend ko sa'ken ng message tungkol sa kagustuhan niyang magkaroon ng boyfriend at gusto niyang tulungan ko siya sa pagsasakatuparan ng kanyang nais. Hindi pa siya nagkakaroon ng special someone ever pero hindi naman siya 'yung taong babangungutin ka 'pag nakita mo, in fact, she has her way of presenting herself pleasantly to the people she meets. Ilang beses na rin siyang hinanapan ng date ng mga kaibigan namin pero mukhang hindi niya pa talaga oras na magka-alam mo na. Medyo choosy rin kasi, at ang gusto niya raw eh isang taong intellectually stimulating... as in brainy pero hindi naman weird ang dating...need not to be hot pero presentable. Bihira lang 'yung ganon, sabi ko sa kanya pero mapilit pa rin. Minsan kahit gaano kababa ang isineset nating standards given the circumstances, mahirap pa ring makuha.

I haven't met Ms. Right yet, but I do not rush... I know she'll come. I just hope she won't come at the wrong place at the wrong time.

Some people leaves with a sigh or a tear in the eye. Some just leaves without a trace. Some leaves with a smile and a promise to come back. Some people doesn't leave because of love, I wish I would someday be forced by love to do the things I dare not try... but for now...

I'll stay to be your bloggista....leaving an inkblog.