I know it is not the topic that I should start with but while i was browsing the internet and checking the videos in YouTube, I can't help but notice the growing number of shows and movies dealing with gay love and relationships for the theme and common ending to such are tragic and very unfortunate as contrary to the synonym of the word on which the name of the homosexual class was derived which means "happy".
Let me make myself clear, I am not a gay neither bisexual but I do have friends who has sentiments on how pitiful the outcome of gay relations will be. In one instance, a gay friend even asked me how come the girl-who-acted-as-a-boy in the Asianovelas Hanakimi and Coffee Prince had a guy who loved her for her male identity, does that mean that a man or a woman can love a gay or a lesbian romantically and genuinely? I opted to leave the question a question until now...
Can a straight heterosexual love a homo- or bisexual?
From the question itself, it is impossible. The only way a man can truly love another man is for him to become a gay or at least a bisexual. The next question would be is, if they can endure the hypocritic eyes of those people who believes that a person can only commit himself to the opposite sex which consists around 90% of the place you are living in including your parents (especially in the Philippines where everyone considers themselves as conservatives); and if you can, how long will it last?
Gay relationship also needs to face the reality that you can never have an offspring as a couple, however you want to have a natural baby, you just can't and won't. A sad reality. You can't leave peacefully just like the other "normal" couples and now, you need to accept that it will be you and him/her until your dying hour unless you would want to have a baby maker or adopt a kid.
Chasing true love, that's one of the quest a gay has to face, i think, but sustaining it and making it last proves to be the toughest.
Now, if someone asks me to become a gay man in exchange for a milllion dollar, I would definitely say no. It's not that I hate gays or a homophobic but because in a society where I am living, straight men has a greater chance of finding true love, someone to stand by you without the scrutiny of public eye. I believe that growing old with someone you love is ideal, and so difficult to make happen but being gay, I think, doubles the difficulty.
This is what I am thinking of, sorry for those who got offended and have different views but i hope you'd respect mine the way i respect your opinions, it's okay if you'd speak it out here.
I am your blogger leaving an inkblog.
Let me make myself clear, I am not a gay neither bisexual but I do have friends who has sentiments on how pitiful the outcome of gay relations will be. In one instance, a gay friend even asked me how come the girl-who-acted-as-a-boy in the Asianovelas Hanakimi and Coffee Prince had a guy who loved her for her male identity, does that mean that a man or a woman can love a gay or a lesbian romantically and genuinely? I opted to leave the question a question until now...
Can a straight heterosexual love a homo- or bisexual?
From the question itself, it is impossible. The only way a man can truly love another man is for him to become a gay or at least a bisexual. The next question would be is, if they can endure the hypocritic eyes of those people who believes that a person can only commit himself to the opposite sex which consists around 90% of the place you are living in including your parents (especially in the Philippines where everyone considers themselves as conservatives); and if you can, how long will it last?
Gay relationship also needs to face the reality that you can never have an offspring as a couple, however you want to have a natural baby, you just can't and won't. A sad reality. You can't leave peacefully just like the other "normal" couples and now, you need to accept that it will be you and him/her until your dying hour unless you would want to have a baby maker or adopt a kid.
Chasing true love, that's one of the quest a gay has to face, i think, but sustaining it and making it last proves to be the toughest.
Now, if someone asks me to become a gay man in exchange for a milllion dollar, I would definitely say no. It's not that I hate gays or a homophobic but because in a society where I am living, straight men has a greater chance of finding true love, someone to stand by you without the scrutiny of public eye. I believe that growing old with someone you love is ideal, and so difficult to make happen but being gay, I think, doubles the difficulty.
This is what I am thinking of, sorry for those who got offended and have different views but i hope you'd respect mine the way i respect your opinions, it's okay if you'd speak it out here.
I am your blogger leaving an inkblog.
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